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Common themes surfaced again and again...

Common themes surfaced again and again...

Bronnie Ware is an Australian nurse who spent several years working in palliative care, caring for patients in the last 12 weeks of their lives.

She recorded their dying epiphanies in a blog called Inspiration and Chai, which gathered so much attention that she put her observations into a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.

"When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently," she says, "common themes surfaced again and again."

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5. I wish that I had let myself be happier

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier

"This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice.

They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical l...

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4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends

"Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down.

Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years.

Ther...

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2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard

2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard

"This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship.

Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners.

All of the men ...

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3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings

3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings

"Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others.

As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming.

Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness ...

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1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me

"This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled.

Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choi...

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