Pretraining

This strategy works by deputizing others to enforce your habit for you.

Pros:

• No formal rules or mechanisms are required, just the social pressure from the outside.
• If you find yourself constantly breaking your own commitments, this may be the only

Manipulators often expect immediate answers, to maximize their pressure and control over you in the situation. Don’t answer right away and use time to your advantage by saying you will think about it.

Take the time you need to evaluate the pros and cons of a situation, and con...

You commit to some change for 30 days, then tou can go back to your old ways. But having spent thirty days applying a new behavior is often enough to convince you to stick with it.

Pros:

• Can handle more significant/difficult behavior changes you might be unli...