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Make a conscious effort to bring out the best in someone else through your communication.

This makes communicating less "me-centric," which is talking to hear yourself talk, or talking "at" someone rather than "with" them, or being more interested in wanting to "capture" their attention for some kind of pay off. 

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1.After you “screw up” or say something you “shouldn’t have” – write down what you’ll say next time

2. Before and after going to an event or meeting, write down how you’re feeling, what makes you nervous and what you could do in the worst case scenario

3. Before going to office or event, write down conversational questions you could ask. Practice saying them out loud.

4. Write down things you are interested in and why .

5. Write down one small thing you can do each day to help you move closer to your goal.

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  1. Create a foundation of security.
  2. Look your friends in the face and give them your full attention.
  3. Help people understand and accept you. Be honest and stop pretending to be somebody cooler than you are.
  4. Ask for help even when you don’t need it so you’ll feel more comfortable reaching out when you'll know ho they respond to this kind of request.
  5. Accept that closeness varies from person to person. We all need it in different doses.

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