Dilated pupils, for example, can indicate that a person is excited or attracted to the person they are talking to. Conversely, if a person's pupils are constricted, they may be disinterested or uncomfortable.

Dialtion

Direct and prolonged eye contact can indicate confidence, attentiveness, and interest. Avoiding eye contact can indicate that a person is hiding something or is not being truthful.

Eye Contact

Vocal fillers such as "um" or "ah" can indicate hesitation or uncertainty. They can also indicate that a person is trying to buy time to think about what to say next or not sure about the answer.

Vocal fillers 

A decrease in blinking rate can indicate, interest or deception. A normal blink rate is about 10 to 15 times per minute. Rapid blinking can indicate nervousness or lying. Excessive blinking can indicate discomfort or dishonesty. Long blinks can indicate boredom or lack of interest.

Blinking Rate

Standing tall with good posture can indicate confidence and power, while slouching can indicate lack of confidence or submission. Also, putting hands on hips can indicate assertiveness or dominance.

Posture 

Head tilted to the side: When someone tilts their head to the side, it can indicate curiosity, interest, or confusion. Head resting on hand: Never rest your head on the hand as it can indicate boredom, fatigue or inattentiveness.

Head tilted

For 25 years, Joe used nonverbal communication as his primary professional tool in the FBI to catch and interview spies, criminals, and terrorists. Since leaving the FBI his life’s work has been in building awareness about the power of nonverbal communication, debunking myths and falsehoods about nonverbals and giving people insight in how to better utilize nonverbals to enhance their communication skills. Follow Joe on @navarrotells Joe Navarro was a Spycatcher for the FBI in a career spanning decades. Using his specialized skills in behavioural assessment, he mastered the craft of counterintelligence through the use of nonverbal communication. Since retiring he has authored 13 books dealing with human behaviour and lectures widely on the importance and practical use of nonverbal communication. His book, Louder Than Words, was lauded by The Wall Street Journal as “One of the six best business books to read for your career” and What Every BODY is Saying, translated into 28 languages, remains after eleven years, the #1 selling body-language book in the world. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx

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For 25 years, Joe used nonverbal communication as his primary professional tool in the FBI to catch and interview spies, criminals, and terrorists. Since leaving the FBI his life’s work has been in building awareness about the power of nonverbal communication, debunking myths and falsehoods about nonverbals and giving people insight in how to better utilize nonverbals to enhance their communication skills.

Follow Joe on @navarrotells Joe Navarro was a Spycatcher for the FBI in a career spanning decades. Using his specialized skills in behavioural assessment, he mastered the craft of counterintelligence through the use of nonverbal communication. Since retiring he has authored 13 books dealing with human behaviour and lectures widely on the importance and practical use of nonverbal communication.

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Sleep makes you more creative and makes your memories stronger plus it releases the stress and pain from your body and decreases the anxiety and depression for a better life.

Sleep more or minimum 7 hours a day!

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Instead of berating or accusing the other person, use "I" statements to express your own thoughts and feelings. For example, instead of saying "You're wrong," say "I disagree." This can help defuse tense situations and make it easier for the other person to hear your perspective.

I Statments

Take the example of Half-Glass Life approach, where we neglect the fact that the glass is half-empty but, optimistically focus on the part that the other half is filled. This helps us cherish our mind in worst situations.

Framing +

Before having fun with others, first learn to enjoy the alone company. A balance of joy & bliss ponts in life is necessary to handle. This helps us drive our own persona in lone times.

Self Amusement

Becoming sillier at serious & complex situations lightens the moment, makes environment friendly. But, it depends on us to decide where to go silly or to stay focused.

Serious Silly Ratio 

The direction of a person's gaze can also provide insight into their thoughts and emotions. For example, if a person is looking to the side while speaking, they may be lying or trying to remember something. If they are looking at the floor, they may be feeling ashamed or guilty.

Gaze

3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression: http://bit.ly/2BfF4iS Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos. So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable. In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity. Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice. That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity. Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily 0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet 4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert 6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy Everything is awesome (The LEGO Movie): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=StTqXEQ2l-Y Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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3 Habits That Make Chris Pratt Charismatic AF

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Chris Pratt is one of the most charming and funny people I’ve ever seen and that’s after over 100 Charisma on Command videos.  So In honor of Guardians of The Galaxy 2 I wanted to do a breakdown of what it is that makes him so engaging and likable.  In his case, there is a powerful aura of positivity.  Nearly everything he says and does is so upbeat and the effect is contagious

Now, It’s far easier to say be positive, than to actually put it into practice.  That’s why we are going to look at some of the foundations of Chris Pratt’s positivity.  Because when you can bring that into your own life, being confident and charismatic comes so much more easily

0:47 Self amuse as in Jurassic World - Guardians of the Galaxy diet
4:53 Chris Pratt positivity as in this funny clip with Stephen Colbert
6:58 Chris Pratt sticks to the complementary humor and comedy

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A great leader should have the following quantities,<ol><li class="ql-align-center">Leader must have a clear vision.</li><li class="ql-align-center">Leader must know how to manage success or failure. The success he is giving to his team whereas the failure the leader absorbs.</li><li class="ql-align-center">Leader should have transparency. </li><li class="ql-align-center">Leader must have a courage to take decisions.</li><li class="ql-align-center">Leader must be able to travel into an unexplored path.</li></ol>

“When learning is purposeful, creativity blossoms. When creativity blossoms, thinking emanates. When thinking emanates, knowledge is fully lit. When knowledge is lit, economy flourishes.”

“The past is waste paper. The present is a newspaper. The future is a question paper. So read and write carefully otherwise your life will be a tissue paper.”

“One best book is equal to hundred good friends, but one good friend is equal to a library."

“Your best teacher is your last mistake."

“Dreams are not that which you see while sleeping; it is something that does not let you sleep.”

“If you fail, never give up because F.A.I.L. means first Attempt In Learning. End is not the end, in fact E.N.D. means Effort Never Dies. If you get No as an answer, remember N.O. means Next Opportunity.”

“Be active! Take on responsibility! Work for the things you believe in. If you do not, you are surrendering your fate to others.”

“To succeed in life and achieve results, you must understand and master three mighty forces— desire, belief, and expectation.”

“Don’t take rest after your first victory because if you fail in second, more lips are waiting to say that your first victory was just luck.”

“Excellence happens not by accident. It is a process.”

“Two rules for a peaceful life: Depression in failure should never go to heart, and ego in success should never go to the brain.”

“Luxury and Lies have huge maintenance costs. But Truth and Simplicity are self-maintained without any cost.”

“It Is Very Easy To Defeat Someone, But It Is Very Hard To Win Someone”

“Never be a prisoner of your past. It was just a lesson, not a life sentence.”

“All Birds find shelter during a rain.But Eagle avoids rain by flying above the Clouds.Problems are common, but attitude makes the difference!!!”

Avul Pakir Jainulabdeen Abdul Kalam ( 15 October 1931 – 27 July 2015) was an Indian aerospace scientist and statesman who served as the 11th President of India from 2002 to 2007. He thus came to be known as the Missile Man of India for his work on the development of ballistic missile and launch vehicle technology….

Avul Pakir Jainulabdeen Abdul Kalam, The Son Of A Little-Educated Boat-Owner In Rameswaram, Tamil Nadu, Had An Unparalled Career As A Defence Scientist, Culminating In The Highest Civilian Award Of India, The Bharat Ratna. As Chief Of The Country`S Defence Research And Development Programme, Kalam Demonstrated The Great Potential For Dynamism And Innovation That Existed In Seemingly Moribund Research Establishments. This Is The Story Of Kalam`S Rise From Obscurity And His Personal And Professional Struggles, As Well As The Story Of Agni, Prithvi, Akash, Trishul And Nag--Missiles That Have Become Household Names In India And That Have Raised The Nation To The Level Of A Missile Power Of International Reckoning.

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Arun Tiwari is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. Arun Tiwari has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. Arun Tiwari's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

Arun Tiwari

A. P. J. Abdul Kalam is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

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Wings of Fire

At any time, when someone asks you question try coming close to the guy, this shown your sincere attention towards the person. Also the guy could possibly better figure out our eye gestures from a close distance.

Distance

The greater we narrow our eyes, the more sincere & genuine we look. When explaining our statement to someone narrowing our eyes, tilting your head, nodding your head are basic necessities.

Narrow

The moment you break your eye contact is the moment you genuinely end a conversation with a person sitting in group of individuals.

Break 

Never abruptly end the conversation when giving a optimistic speech. Move backwards while continuing speaking for some seconds. Then, weigh your body to the back side, gradually ending the conversation, neglecting the immediate silence.

Slow

A balance of eye contact is must when approaching a group.As too little eye contact is interpreted as not paying attention, being insincere or shy.

Low 

Former US President on Eye Commincation!!!

How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton. The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters. When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact. But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps. Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-) Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOC Connect With Us. Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Periscope: @Charismaon Or if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Periscope: @CharlieHoupert

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How To Make Eye Contact - Bill Clinton Charisma Breakdown

How to make eye contact - learn from one of the masters... Bill Clinton.  The 1992 Presidential debate was a huge turning point in the race and Clinton's superb eye contact is what so endeared him to voters.

When you break down Bill Clinton's charisma it's obvious that there is a lot more going on than eye contact.  But by focusing on these 3 simple charismatic tips to improve your eye contact, you'll find that your ability to connect with people immediately jumps.  Bill Clinton used it to advance his campaign all the way to the Presidency - so you should be able to use it to make a few friends :-)

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The floor effect refers to a phenomenon in which the lowest possible score on a test or measurement instrument "floors" the scores of some individuals, making it difficult or impossible to distinguish between those who scored at the lowest level and those who may have scored even lower.For example, a test with a lowest possible score of 0 have a floor effect for individuals who scored 0, making it impossible to determine if they truly have no knowledge or skill in the subject being tested, or if they are simply unable to perform any better on the test.

Floor EFFECT

Amgdala is a part of the brain involved in emotional intelligence. When a threat is detected, amygdala activates the brain for fear response.It's also responsible for a fear formation of memories. When we experience a fear-provoking event, the amygdala sends a signal to hippocampus to save the event as a long-term memory. This is why traumatic events are often remembered much more vividly than neutral events.

Amygdala

If we were able to fully "master" the amygdala in the brain, it could improve people's ability to make rational decisions in high-stress situations, such as Emergency responders & military personnels.A stock trader who has worked for well-said time in the market over the clocks, has a prominent amygdala.

Why To Master

On one hand, human advancements in technology, medicine, and infrastructure have led to increased prosperity. On the other hand, these same advancements have also led to significant environmental degradation. The more we develop, the greater we deteriorate. This is known as Anthropocene Dilemma.

The Dilemma

In Focus, Psychologist and journalist Daniel Goleman, author of the #1 international bestseller Emotional Intelligence, offers a groundbreaking look at today's scarcest resource and the secret to high performance and fulfillment: attention. Combining cutting-edge research with practical findings, Focus delves into the science of attention in all its varieties, presenting a long overdue discussion of this little-noticed and under-rated mental asset. In an era of unstoppable distractions, Goleman persuasively argues that now more than ever we must learn to sharpen focus if we are to survive in a complex world. Goleman boils down attention research into a threesome: inner, other, and outer focus. Drawing on rich case studies from fields as diverse as competitive sports, education, the arts, and business, he shows why high-achievers need all three kinds of focus, and explains how those who rely on Smart Practices—mindfulness meditation, focused preparation and recovery, positive emotions and connections, and mental "prosthetics" that help them improve habits, add new skills, and sustain greatness—excel while others do not.

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In Focus, Psychologist and journalist Daniel Goleman, author of the #1 international bestseller Emotional Intelligence, offers a groundbreaking look at today's scarcest resource and the secret to high performance and fulfillment: attention.

Combining cutting-edge research with practical findings, Focus delves into the science of attention in all its varieties, presenting a long overdue discussion of this little-noticed and under-rated mental asset. In an era of unstoppable distractions, Goleman persuasively argues that now more than ever we must learn to sharpen focus if we are to survive in a complex world.

Goleman boils down attention research into a threesome: inner, other, and outer focus. Drawing on rich case studies from fields as diverse as competitive sports, education, the arts, and business, he shows why high-achievers need all three kinds of focus, and explains how those who rely on Smart Practices—mindfulness meditation, focused preparation and recovery, positive emotions and connections, and mental "prosthetics" that help them improve habits, add new skills, and sustain greatness—excel while others do not.

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School rewards getting to a singular “right answer.”Thinking like everyone else is good.<a href="https://amzn.to/3W7lH1j">We never learn that the best ideas come from divergent thinking</a> — let alone that just because everyone thinks something doesn’t mean it’s true.

1/Convergent thinking 

In school (both academically and socially), success comes from fitting in. Most of us internalize chasing conformity as a metric for “doing well.”We forget that in the real world, the greatest rewards go to those who dare to be different.

2/Conformity = Success .

Repeating what someone else told you is not thinking, and it’s not learning. It’s just parroting. Unfortunately, it’s also what most of school consists of — just memorizing answers.Most of us graduate thinking that’s what learning is.

3/Regurgitation = education

School punishes failure. It gives kids bad marks if they get the wrong answer.This is intended to incentivize effort, but it also makes kids fear failure.Success in the real world requires lots of failure. <a href="https://amzn.to/3ZzSn6q">To get good at something,you have to fail first</a>.

4Failure is bad

So much of school is centered around authorities’ opinions — everything from the right answer on a test, to your own “worth” as a student (whether you’re a “smart kid” or an “average kid”).That default deference is hard to shake, but it’s important to.

5Authorities are right.

School equates book smarts with potential.But you can be bad at school and brilliant in other ways.“If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life thinking it’s stupid.” —

6/IQ = book smarts = life potential

Learning is something that happens all the time. You’re learning every time you fight with a friend, make a pitch and are rejected, try a new skill, etc.It’s not just something that occurs in a classroom.

7Learning is a top-down activity, not a dynamic skill

School teaches us that it’s “cheating” to work together on a test.And yet, <a href="https://amzn.to/3iHgaki">the real world rewards efficiency.</a> Using resources means getting things done faster. Moving faster = moving farther.It’s a *good* thing to work smart.

8/Asking for help and sharing resources is bad

What school/college fails to teach about life. Twitter thread from rebeleducator(on twitter).

Tweet / Twitter

The Prussian King Frederick's kingdom was struck by drought & famine. The king discovered potatoes from Spanish explorers which were easy-to-cook.

Frederick

Although the potatoes were bought, the peasants refuse to touch it, as they were completely loathe & flavorless in taste. Even the dogs refused to sniff it.

Repugnance 

The king strategically ordered to keep some potatoes in the farms of Berlin under high security of protection. Making it likely to appear as absolutely precious.

King'sMarketing 

The king purposely guided the guards to relax within desirable hours, letting this as an easy go for peasants & farmers to steal potatoes.This is how Frederick wisely created fusible demand-supply chain for potatoes.

Bixby

Share any other PoStory, if you find any!!!

The Epochal Story of Potato

Never outshine the master: Always make those above you feel comfortably superior, and never rival them.

Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies: Be wary of those who are close to you, and use your enemies as a means of gaining power.

Conceal your intentions: Keep your true goals and motives hidden, and always appear to be acting for the benefit of others.

Always say less than necessary: Speak as little as possible and avoid unnecessary self-promotion.

Play a sucker to catch a sucker—seem dumber than your mark: By appearing less powerful or knowledgeable than your target, you can gain the upper hand.

Court attention at all costs: Use any means necessary to attract attention and gain power, even if it means acting in a controversial or outrageous manner.

Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit: Use the efforts of others to your advantage, but make sure you are the one who gets the credit.

Make your accomplishments seem effortless: Appear as though your success is the result of natural talent and ability, rather than hard work and effort.

Control the options: Limit the options of others, while providing as many options for yourself as possible.

Play on people's need to believe to create a cult-like following: Appeal to people's emotional needs and desires in order to create a loyal following.

The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene is a bestselling book that provides a guide to gaining, maintaining, and using power in various social and professional situations. Some key ideas from the book include:

Amoral, cunning, ruthless, and instructive, this multi-million-copy New York Times bestseller is the definitive manual for anyone interested in gaining, observing, or defending against ultimate control – from the author of The Laws of Human Nature. In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum. Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Amoral, cunning, ruthless, and instructive, this multi-million-copy New York Times bestseller is the definitive manual for anyone interested in gaining, observing, or defending against ultimate control – from the author of The Laws of Human Nature. In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum.   Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.

Robert Greene is an American author of books on strategy, power, and seduction. He has written six international bestsellers, including The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, and The Laws of Human Nature.

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The 48 Laws of Power

Exploitation: A company chooses to take a product improve its quality, exponentially better & better, but to the end it fails due to surging market requirements.Exploration: A company apart from a prev product focuses on other new systems & technology, which helps them pace with the market.Blackberry choosed Exploitation over Exploration & this is were their market share fell by 72% & the brand went missing.

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<ol><li>Straight your back </li><li>Close Your Eyes </li><li>Start breathing, focus on your breath </li><li>Don't think a lot about controlling the breath, just have your focus on it </li></ol>Effect:After carrying this process you will certainly not feel much weighed & stress, will lighten as you will not remember what was wandering or frazzling you.When to:This process is recommended by Emory University, when doing a work, somethings wandering you, take a break, carry the breaths, then relax & immediately move into your work without any pause.

Anti-Wandering Method

"Information consumes attention, hence a wealth of information creates a poverty of attention"That's why it's said to keep minimum mentors at a time

The traffic lights are great mood sustainers for daily basis.Red: Stop! It indicates that we are upset or stressed. So, for the moment go slow & sane to avoid any mistake.Yellow: Think before you proceed! Its generally observed when its time to make a decision or to start something from beginning.Green: Push or Go Ahead! Its basic theory emphasizes to start a process you're procrastinating past days. Don't think Just push yourself ahead & go for it.

Red Yellow Green 

Aaron Deck a school teacher, met with an accident past few yrs, now aged 93. He was wheelchaired, lost one eyesight said, "Its perfectly fine & I have another eyesight left".Some yrs after lost another another eyesight said,"No worries, I could listen to books on tape".Asked,"what will you do for living". He stated,"As a teacher, will call on the most brilliant student of the class, tell him to write, if somebody disrupts the silence will charge 20 bucks to the student"We have our methods but are restricted by the society itself.

Optimistic Story

Psychologist Daniel Goleman shot to fame with his groundbreaking bestseller Emotional Intelligence. Raw intelligence alone is not a sure predictor of success in life. A greater role is played by 'softer' skills such as self-control, self-motivation, empathy and good interpersonal relationships.

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