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The six types of negative people we should ignore and how to ignore them.
Philosophies for Life
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Research by Dr David McCleilland of Harvard shows that the people you habitually associate with determines 95% of your success or failure in life.
Some people hold us back while others help us forward. You can't hang out with negative people and expect a positive life. Mor...
These people are very charismatic. They are masters at sweeping you up into their personal melodramas, then need you to help solve some urgent problem. So you do. But then there's another problem, and another, until you realise that they crave attention and use urgent problems to control you.
...You may be in a situation with someone who is intimidating and demanding, and you try to keep the peace by doing whatever they want. But regardless of what you do, it's never enough.
When you are a pleaser, you never say "no". This is an unhealthy pattern of behaviour as it...
You can deal with people that fails to appreciate you by changing your attitude towards them.
Someone is perhaps discouraging you from pursuing your goals and dreams. For example, they may think your plans for the future is impossible or that you are joking. They may sabotage your plans to cultivate a new habit. Or they keep you from achieving your potential.
You ne...
The manipulator will say and do anything to get others to do what they want them to do. These people prioritise their own feelings and needs and insist that you help them at all costs., but if you need assistance, they will not help you.
The manipulator deliberately creates an imbal...
The stubborn person insists you should be someone else. They label you unfairly based on who you used to be.
The only relationships that work well are the ones that encourage you to be a better person without trying to change you into someone other than yourself.
Ther...
They judge you by your past, hold it against you and refuse to forgive you. They refuse to support you or allow you to grow past your mistakes.
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