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This Is How To Make Emotionally Intelligent Friendships: 2 Secrets From Research - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

This Is How To Make Emotionally Intelligent Friendships: 2 Secrets From Research - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

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Friendship: How to Win Friends and Influence People

Dale Carnegie's book has sold over thirty million copies, and nearly a century later it still sells more than a quarter-million copies each year.

He encourages people to listen, be interested in others, speak to them from their point of view, sincerely flatter others, seek similarity, a...

The Answer: Being Vulnerable

We don't want awful people to exploit our weaknesses, but the irony is that our weaknesses are where trust comes from

How do you signal you're trustworthy? By trusting someone else.

  • Vulnerability tells people they're part of an exclusive club.
  • Not only is...

If It Feels Uncomfortable And Scary, Say It

As long as you feel emotionally safe and you're getting a positive reception, share more.

  • Not being vulnerable kills friendships.
  • Not opening up prolongs minor illnesses, increases the likelihood of a first heart attack, and doubles the chance it being lethal.

Make the time, vulnerably share your thoughts, and raise the stakes.

  • If all goes well, they do the same.
  • With trust established, we can ignore costs to a greater degree, as can they.
  • If they are a true friend, it will feel natural to help them when they...

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