Magnetic people have a unique presence. You can feel it as they enter the room, while they talk and while they are silent. Sometimes the quiet, full of confidence, before the speech begins, affects more than a person who tries very hard to impress.

When I think about developing this ability, one word comes to mind, Practice. sure you can take courses on the subjects, however, it is also possible to develop it from viewing TED.com which contains fascinating lectures. In these lectures, it is important to pay attention to the way the lecturers speak and what they do between sentences.

 Another way to develop this is to just go out with the intention of being magnetic and charismatic, old school practice, try being the loudest in the barbershop, the most talkative.

Usually a magnetic or charismatic person has a certain contrast that makes it difficult to understand his personality. That's partly why he is magnetic, which makes sense when you realize real magnets magnet to opposite poles, by having a unique “pole” to him, he attracts people naturally.

He can also be a person who understands people intimately and yet is very distant, as Sigmund Freud was.

To develop such an ability, we must develop the ability to control the words we say.

 If we know how to express ourselves accurately and do not reveal all the information directly, we can allow others to discover us gradually. Peeling the layers becomes a fascinating journey for the people who are just starting out.

The feeling that the someone has a purpose and is determined to achieve it causes people to follow him.

This ability is not really one you need to “develop”, you have it in you, its a mindset problem. Decide what idea or goal you believe in, and prove to people that you do not deviate from it, at all costs.

Leaders who lived by the principles they espoused, were given the status of sanctity by their congregation. We can see a good example of this in Vladimir Lenin and Mahatma Gandhi, who years after their deaths, their audience still worships them.

It can not be faked, sorry. On the other hand, if we start listening to our advice and start living what we say to others, we will open up exactly that ability.

Our eyes transmit our emotions and are often considered a window to the soul. The ability to make a stable, pleasant and confident eye contact, makes people feel magnetic and charismatic even before we have punched our mouths.

In order for us to develop this ability, we would like to stop avoiding eye contact. If we decide that in the next few days, we will make pleasant eye contact (unlike that of serial killers) with people instead of bowing our gaze, we will initially get a number of confused looks and sometimes even a smile.

This is for now. I wish you a particularly fascinating and extraordinary exit in the exit from your comfort zone. After all, between us, this is the essence of your transformation into a more magnetic person.

And now, I’m intrigued to hear in the comments below, what do you think?

Have great week:))