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How to Say No to Anyone (Even a Good Friend)

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How to Say No to Anyone (Even a Good Friend)
It was the kind of email that makes your shoulders clench up tight, right by your ears. A friend-not a super-close one, but one I respected and admired-wanted my help with a writing project. Her deadline was seven days away. She just needed a few hours of my time.

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How to Say No to Anyone
  1. Say it fast and do not leave that person hanging.
  2. Explain the reason briefly.
  3. Propose an alternative way on helping that person.

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