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Why It's Better to be Human Than to Be Right - Personal Growth - Medium

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Why It's Better to be Human Than to Be Right - Personal Growth - Medium
Everybody is wrong except you, right? "Sometimes it's better to be kind than to be right. We do not need an intelligent mind that speaks, but a patient heart that listens." - Gautama Buddha Our mind loves being right. A student went to his meditation teacher and said, "My meditation is horrible!

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Benefits of Being Wrong

Benefits of Being Wrong
  • Accepting vulnerability
  • Embracing a learning mind
  • Opening to new possibilities
  • Prioritizing self-growth over reputation.

We default to being right all the time. Realizing that it's Ok to be wrong takes practice and the first step towards it is accepting the fact that we are humans and we will face failures many times during our lives.

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