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How to Ask for Help When You Need It Most

https://www.lifehack.org/813029/learn-to-ask-for-help

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How to Ask for Help When You Need It Most
Nod your head if you've ever had to ask for help at work, at home or anywhere else. Now, nod again if you've ever felt shy or silly when doing so. I'm sure some of you reading would have nodded twice!

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Asking For Help

Asking For Help

Not wanting to seem weak, needy, and incompetent or like we’re taking advantage often keeps us from asking for help, but that’s often an overblown fear caused by our tendency to think the worst. Not asking for help, we miss out on potential knowledge and may end up worsening situations.

Having a support system leads to higher levels of well-being, better coping skills and a longer and healthier life.

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Seeking Help Is Strength

Seeking Help Is Strength

By taking an active step in seeking help or advice, you’re actually taking control of your life, and not letting external circumstances (such as what people think) affect how you behave and perform. It is courageous to accept your weaknesses.

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