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5 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors You Should Avoid

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5 Self-Sabotaging Behaviors You Should Avoid
Let's be honest: Sometimes we are our own worst enemies. Too often we stumble into pitfalls of our own making. Some mistakes are inevitable, no matter how much time and thought we put into a plan. Other blunders are bred of laziness, rashness, inflexibility or plain arrogance.

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Self-Sabotaging Behaviors

Self-Sabotaging Behaviors
  • Comparing Yourself to Others. Too much focus on others is bad for business and worse for self-confidence.
  • Failure to Take Risks and Consistently Challenge Yourself. The most successful people are always pushing limits and expanding boundaries.
  • Succumbing to Distractions. Eliminate distractions by giving yourself a specific deadline each day. After you’ve accomplished your goal, you can reward yourself with a Facebook or Twitter visit.
  • Inaction. Distraction and procrastination are like handcuffs that shackle your dreams.
  • An Unwillingness to Relinquish Past Mistakes. Learn from your flubs and challenge yourself to be better in the future. Then let that guilt go!

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