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Recover From Career-Limiting Mistakes With Humor

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Recover From Career-Limiting Mistakes With Humor
The gist: Humor is a great psychological tool to get and keeping people on your side. Use it wisely, and use it often-especially when you screw up. Everyone makes mistakes. But what makes one mistake forgivable and another not? You've probably seen plenty of instances where big mistakes were ignored.

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Limiting Mistakes With Humor

Humor is a great psychological tool to get and keeping people on your side. Use it wisely, and use it often—especially when you screw up.

The next time you find yours...

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The Tom Brokaw Method

... to recover from a mistake with humor:

  • Acknowledge the mistake. There’s no hiding it now. Everyone saw!
  • Correct the mistake. If it’s necessary, make whatever cor...

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It also impresses with intelligence:

    • But don’t try too hard. Wit flows from passion for the subject.
  • Wit is all about overturning expectations. The wit is in the surprise.
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