6 Rules to Be CHARISMATIC ✨ - Deepstash
6 Rules to Be CHARISMATIC ✨

6 Rules to Be CHARISMATIC ✨

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Make People Feel Important : SHR Method

Make People Feel Important : SHR Method

👀 Seen:

  1. Give eye contact
  2. Offer a compliment

👂🏻Heard:

  1. Ask good questions
  2. Be interested, not interesting

🧠 Remembered:

  1. Remember names
  2. Recall what you discussed

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Pause Before Speaking 30% Rule

Pause Before Speaking 30% Rule

When speaking, we allow ourselves only 30% of the time a listener would give us to fill a pause. You have more time to reply than you think. Wait for 2 seconds first.

Pause in Speaking + Eye Contact = Confidence 😌✨

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Hone Your Body Language 7-38-55 Rule

Hone Your Body Language 7-38-55 Rule

People will like/dislike your communication based on:

  • 7% words
  • 38% tonality and face
  • 55% body language

Try doing this:

  1. Stand up straight.🧍🏻
  2. Shoulders back.🚶🏻
  3. Make eye contact. 👀
  4. Smile. 😄
  5. Give firm handshake. 🤝🏻

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Use Humor

Use Humor

A study of top TED Talks found humor as a key ingredient. People are drawn to those who make them feel good (aided by humor).

3 proven tips to be funnier:

  1. Give a surprising answer.
  2. Care more than someone predicted.
  3. Be more specific than necessary.

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Don't Complain or Gossip. Ever.

Don't Complain or Gossip. Ever.

Nobody likes to hear complaining. So why do we do it ourselves? (Respectfully standing up for yourself is different.) Separately, when you talk bad about others, people wonder if you talk bad about them too. Just don't do it.

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The Shadow Rule

The Shadow Rule

You don't need to hide parts of yourself to be accepted by others. Think about your favorite movie or TV character. They have at least one weakness. You wouldn't like them as much otherwise. Imperfection is humanizing.

Own your flaws, be magnetic.⚡

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