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How humour can change your relationship
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Humor In A relationship
A sense of humor is desirable in a relationship, as people, especially men seem more desirable if they are funny.
The humor effect is not universally the same, with short-term relationships getting a boost, but falling short in the long-term game.
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Humor During Stress
Generally, humor is a great ice-breaker and social lubricant, but if there are stressful situations in a relationship, humor actually increases the chances of a break-up or divorce.
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Laughing With Your Partner
An intimate relationship requires opening up with your partner and being vulnerable, something that may feel uncomfortable to some people. Relationship satisfaction is affected if:
- Couples like to laugh at others.
- Partners like if someone laughs at one of them, or if the other partner makes fun of them.
- Partners dislike if the other makes fun of them.
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Humor For Women
- Women are better satisfied sexually with partners who are humorous.
- They also tend to initiate sex more often.
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The Negativity Bias
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Magnified Faults
The Negativity Effect magnifies and distorts your partner's faults, whether real or imaginary.
The partner starts to wonder why isn't there any appreciation for all the good that is being done, and why the focus is only on the one bad thing.
Going Downhill
Relationships, especially long-term ones, don't get better with time but are kept intact by avoiding decline.
Married couples find contentment in other sources and remain satisfied with each other, and if not so, then the marriage breaks down.