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Truly likable people all share the same trait - here are 9 ways to know if you're one of them

Ask a Lot Of Questions

Ask a Lot Of Questions

People who ask lots of questions are rated more likable than their conversation partners than people who ask fewer questions. Follow-up questions (ones related to something you've just been discussing) are especially helpful.

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