Develop and maintain friendships

Look for friends with common interests.
Schedule a "first date. There is nothing wrong with inviting someone for coffee or dinner because you think you have something in common with them.
Make a commitment. Once you begin a friendship, you must be purposeful in developing it.
Have fun. These fun activities become the moments that offer the perfect balance to the challenges in life.

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4 Keys to Developing and Maintaining Friendships

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Develop and maintain friendships

Look for friends with common interests.
Schedule a "first date. There is nothing wrong with inviting someone for coffee or dinner because you think you have something in common with them.
Make a commitment. Once you begin a friendship, you must be purposeful in developing it.
Have fun. These fun activities become the moments that offer the perfect balance to the challenges in life.

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