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4 Keys to Developing and Maintaining Friendships

Develop and maintain friendships

  • Look for friends with common interests. 
  • Schedule a "first date. There is nothing wrong with inviting someone for coffee or dinner because you think you have something in common with them.
  • Make a commitment. Once you begin a friendship, you must be purposeful in developing it.
  • Have fun. These fun activities become the moments that offer the perfect balance to the challenges in life.

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4 Keys to Developing and Maintaining Friendships

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Develop and maintain friendships

  • Look for friends with common interests. 
  • Schedule a "first date. There is nothing wrong with inviting someone for coffee or dinner because you think you have something in common with them.
  • Make a commitment. Once you begin a friendship, you must be purposeful in developing it.
  • Have fun. These fun activities become the moments that offer the perfect balance to the challenges in life.

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Be a regular

The best way to have friends is to interact with the same person regularly.

Look for activities where the same core people show up. Keep showing up yourself. 

Talk about yourself

Share some details of your life more freely so that your conversation partner doesn't have to interrogate you. If you feel uncomfortable talking too much, give yourself permission to stretch and grow.

Be the conversation starter

Most people are secretly scared of getting rejected.  Assume that people like you and act in kind.

Don't wait for them to start a conversation. Say "hello." They might be relieved you took the initiative.

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