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5 key behaviors to make yourself resilient to stress

Social support and resilience

Reliable and consistent social support is related to better psychological health, higher motivation, and a lower stress response.

In order to make sure you have people to lean on, invest in relationship-building long before you need it.

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Build A Community

Fostering strong relationships with family, friends, mentors and others to whom you can turn in times of crisis helps you bounce back. 

Meg Jay

"Resilience is not a trait. It’s not something you’re born with. It’s not something you just have."

Meg Jay
Tips to become more resilient
  1. Recognize that your struggle is valid, no matter what you’re struggling with.
  2. Realize the ways you’re already resilient.

  3. Don’t wait for the situation to fix itself.

  4. Know your strengths and use them.

  5. Don’t try to do it alone…

  6. …but know that it’s okay not to tell everyone.

  7. Find your favorite way to take a mental break.

  8. Be compassionate with yourself and realize all the ways adversity has made you strong. 

Resilience

Resilience is the the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress. 

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Resilience is a skill

Resilience isn’t something you’re born with, but something you build. 

Psychologists say it’s comprised of behaviors, thoughts and actions that anyone can learn — a skill that can be improved, just like running or speaking a new language.

Common patterns in building resilience
  • Relying on others. Resilience has a lot to do with leaning on the people around you and with developing strong, supportive connections.
  • Trust your own abilities. Keep a list of accomplishments you’re proud of to serve as a reminder of the times you’ve been resilient before.
  • Be kind to yourself. Give yourself permission to set physical, mental and emotional boundaries.
  • Change your outlook. While you can’t always control the situation, you do have control over how you respond to it. Cultivate optimism in the face of adversity.
  • Take the next step, even if it’s small. Build hope. Make a list that includes a goal, steps to achieve it, potential obstacles and strategies to overcome them.