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How To Fully Commit To Goals That Terrify You - Thrive Global - Medium

Detaching from prior success

The only way to get to the next level is by letting go of who you’ve been. The longer you hold on, the smaller your thinking will be.

Don’t get stuck where you were. Be willing to banish the past, no matter how great, for a better future.

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