FOLLOW Take Baby Steps To Grow
Try to gradually overcome your tendency to feel insecure by
introducing yourself to those situations slowly - as a sort of desensitization process. If you have trouble in social environments, for example, ask trusted friends or family members to go with you and act as a buffer.
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Dealing with other people's anger can be challenging, confusing, and sometimes terrifying-especially if it's someone we're close to like a spouse, parent, or co-worker. In this article, I'm going to teach you how to think about and handle other people's anger like a professional psychologist would.
Anger and Aggression Anger: An emotion felt when we believe we have been wronged. Aggression: is an act of expression of the anger, by our words our actions. Aggressio... Validation and Boundaries We can try and validate the anger felt by an individual by making them know that their anger is maybe justified while putting firm but respectful boundaries on their aggression. We then need to be clear about what type of aggression we are willing to tolerate, setting boundaries on the unacceptable. We may have to put our foot down and be ready to leave the conversation or escalate the issue, without falling into the trap of guilt and emotion. If possible, we need to restart the conversation when things have cooled down, and diffuse the issue in a calm way. Avoiding Speculative Self-Talk
Unchecked self-talk can easily turn into self-delusion. The stories we create almost always make you look like the good guy and cannot be termed as objective.
The way to get out of this speculative self-delusion is to avoid any speculation about other people's anger, at least initially. Make sure to note down the facts of the situation. This can make the story less according to your gut instinct, and more towards the objective reality. FOLLOW 7 Strategies to Deal With Difficult Family Members
Difficult people are everywhere, like it or not. It's pretty certain that at some point in your life, you'll come across a challenging person and will have to find a way to deal with them. It would be easy to think, "Why bother?" if being around them causes you grief.
Don’t try to fix the difficult person Accept them exactly as they are.
Accept that they are unable to change, at least at this point in time. Unless you see real change — proof that this person is making an effort&nb...
Be present and direct
Try to avoid getting into a fight-or-flight response, which
inevitably leads to becoming defensive. Be direct and assertive when you express yourself. Stay focused on how you respond. Know when the discussion or argument has accelerated to the point of no return. If it gets to this point, stop the interaction, and leave the conversation. Encourage difficult people to express themselves Let them fully state their point of view about the issue/conflict/problem without interruption. What do they feel people misunderstand about them? What do they want or expect from others?
The idea is to remain as neutral as possible. Just listening may be enough to allow someone to feel like they have the opportunity to say what’s on their mind.
FOLLOW How to Recharge Your Mind and Body When You Feel Drained
Is everyday life leaving you drained? In today's fast-paced world, being busy seems like something to be proud of. Between working all day, eating on the run, and having little time for fun and relaxation, it's normal to feel exhausted at least some of the time. But always feeling worn-out isn't healthy.
Recharge yourself physically Take a warm bath. Try using Epsom salt in your bath. Use an exfoliating scrub to help recharge your body by improving blood circulation. Change your diet... Recharge mentally Make a list of your accomplishments Let go of past mistakes Do something fun Take breaks from things and people that bring you down Spend time with close friends and family Meditate or pray Avoid multitasking Take a break from technology Do something artsy Write in a journal Why people feel drained
Most likely, exhaustion is linked to:
too much or too little physical activity jetlag or something else that confuses your circadian rhythm insomnia or lack of sleep medications such as antihistamines and cough medicine poor eating habits stress trauma drug or alcohol use Deepstash is better on the app. Discover new ideas and get inspired daily. GET THE APP SIGN IN