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10 Types of Odd Friendships You're Probably Part Of

The Non-Parallel Life Paths Friendship

You may be the same age, but you have totally different existences from one another.

This kind of friendship usually happens around the age of 30, because people advance into full adulthood at different paces.

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  • Associate:  The relationship revolves around that specific thing, and you barely ever talk about anything else.
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