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10 Types of Odd Friendships You're Probably Part Of

The Frenemy

This friend only wants bad things for you.

You and the Frenemy usually go way back, have a very deep friendship, and the trouble probably started a long time ago. That's why this kind of friend knows very well how to harm you.

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