Once the feedback arrives, look for the common themes that appear in multiple stories. Make a list of the themes, the key examples that support each theme, and what they suggest about your strengths.

Identify 10-20 people who know you well from a mix of personal and professional contacts, and ask them to write a story about a time when you were at your best. It is best if the sources are specific with concrete examples.

If you want to excel at anything, it’s not enough to fix your weaknesses. You also need to leverage your strengths.

Create an action plan for how and when you’ll utilize your strengths.