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Anxious-Preoccupied
- This could be you if you often feel like you give more to relationships than you get back.
- You worry people don't value you.
- You tend to exaggerate when you show people the value you place on them.
- This anxiety might not be attractive to people that don't have the same attachment style.
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Fearful-Avoidant
- This could be you if you are independent, but because you struggle with trusting others.
- You fear that you might get hurt by other people.
- You seem detached and distrustful and that will influence in a negative way the way people interact with you.
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The Secure Attachment Style
- With a secure attachment style, you are comfortable with showing and accepting vulnerability.
- You are self-aware: you know who you are are you are comfortable in your skin.
- You don’t really worry about being lonely or if people accept you, and being connected to others is as ...
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Dismissive-Avoidant
- This could be you if you put your independence above all.
- You tend to think less of others.
- You carefully guard your emotions and try at all costs to keep away from rejection.
- You're more likely to connect with people who express the anxious-preoccupied type because t...
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Attachment style
It describes the way you relate to others based on how you perceive yourself and the people around you.
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Anxious Or Preoccupied Attachment Style
- Some people are always craving for emotional intimacy, even when the other person is not serious or romantic.
- They are in a constant need of approval and reassurances from their partner, and tend to be anxious when the other person isn’t providin...
Ambivalent or Anxious Attachment Style
It’s likely your parent or primary caregiver was inconsistent in their parenting style, sometimes engaged and responsive to your needs as an infant, other times unavailable or distracted.
People with an ambivalent attachment style tend to be overly needy:
- You may find it diffi...
People are self-absorbed
People tend to be too concerned about themselves to give you much attention. They tend to be lonely and more emotional than they are showing; apply this to how you view the world.
This perspective could help you be more proactive and independent.
Be realistic: if you ...
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