People tend to be too concerned about themselves to give you much attention. They tend to be lonely and more emotional than they are showing; apply this to how you view the world.
This perspective could help you be more proactive and independent.
Be realistic: if you place your individual happiness in the hands of another person, you ignore all of the above and do so at your own peril.
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