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Don't Allow Your Limitations to Define You!

Persist

Persist

With each attempt, you may become better at particular traits such as patience, the ability to communicate more effectively, or other valuable skills, but most importantly you will develop the desire to always learn.

Look at your limitations as stepping stones in the journey of achieving great success and fulfillment. It’s your responsibility to decide to rise above the obstacles that keep you from your goals.

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Examine your history

This goes back to your childhood. 

For example: if you’re drawn to the excitement of meeting and starting a relationship with someone who has a lack of morals, character and is untrustworthy, try to find out about how your parents’ unhealthy habits have affected your choice in partners.

You are part of the problem

If you have a fear of abandonment and rejection and you are constantly ‘setting’ up scenarios that lead to your disappointment, you are the puppeteer controlling this.