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4. Have a plan
Let the wronged person know how you intend to fix the situation.
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2. Own the mistake
It’s important to show the other person that you’re willing to take responsibility for your actions.
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6. Ask for forgiveness
A little vulnerability goes a long way toward proving that you mean what you say.
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3. Describe what happened
The wronged person needs to know that you understand what happened and why it was hurtful to them. Make sure you remain focused on your role rather than deflecting the blame.
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