The Real Secret To Intimacy (and Why It Scares Us)
We are afraid we will be rejected if someone finds out who we really are.
When someone is inauthentic, we naturally know they are "fake" people.
Research suggests sticking to the truth improves relationships and may help us overcome negative emotions faster.
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Vulnerability is not knowing victory or defeat, it’s understanding the necessity of both.
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When someone admits they are bad at something, they will probably be more respected.
Accept who you are, faults and all.
When you take responsibility for your problems, you're in control of the solution. When you blame others, you’re handing over control to someone else. And you cannot control them.
Taking up responsibility shows that you accept reality for what it is and set out to work with what you have.
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It is the state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally.
We don't like to be vulnerable because we can more easily get hurt. But we w...
Without genuine vulnerability, it’s impossible to build the types of relationships that can provide comfort and help us through life's hard times.
The risk of vulnerability may be high, but the rewards of positive, healthy relationships are even higher.
We are vulnerable to viruses and accidents, misunderstandings and pain caused by our fears.
Meaningful social connections sustain us and lessen our overall weakness. When we are able to admit to our vulnerabilities, we free up energy because we no longer have to put effort into maintaining our buffers.
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