The Real Secret To Intimacy (and Why It Scares Us)
We are afraid we will be rejected if someone finds out who we really are.
When someone is inauthentic, we naturally know they are "fake" people.
Research suggests sticking to the truth improves relationships and may help us overcome negative emotions faster.
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