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Three Components Of Self Compassion

Three Components Of Self Compassion

  1. Self-Kindness: be gentle and understanding with ourselves
  2. Common Humanity: feeling connected with others
  3. Mindfulness: hold our experience in balanced awareness

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Research on motivation consistently found that self-confidence directly impacts our abilities to reach our goals.

Self-criticism can harm abilities to do our best. When we put ourselves down, we lose faith in ourselves.

Self compassion is more effective a motivator than criticism beca...

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Benefits Of Self Compassion

Benefits Of Self Compassion

  • Emotional resilience
  • Higher self compassion leads to less feelings of anxiety and depression
  • "Mindfulness allows us to see that our negative thoughts and emotions are just that—thoughts and emotions—not necessarily reality. They are therefore given less weight—they are observ...

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Recognizing Emotions

Recognizing Emotions

"Research shows that people with higher levels of self-compassion are significantly less likely to suppress unwanted thoughts and emotions than those who lack self-compassion. They’re more willing to experience their difficult feelings and to acknowledge that their emotions are valid and importan...

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KRISTIN NEFF

I realized that self-compassion was the perfect alternative to the relentless pursuit of self-esteem. Why? Because it offers the same protection against harsh self-criticism as self-esteem, but without the need to see ourselves as perfect or as better than others. In o...

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KRISTIN NEFF

There’s also evidence that having compassion for yourself is related to having compassion for others in certain contexts. For instance, a recent study found that self-compassionate individuals have different goals in their friendships than those who lack self-compassio...

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Discovering Self Compassion

Discovering Self Compassion

Distorting Mirrors

  • Ignoring flaws and blaming issues on someone else

Cost of Self Judgment

  • Can't always feel good about ourselves so we are hard on ourselves leading to emotional pain

Another Way

  • Stop judging and evaluating ourselves all to...

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KRISTIN NEFF

This is a moment of suffering. Suffering is part of life. May I be kind to myself in this moment. May I give myself the compassion I need.

MANTRA FOR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS

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Intelligent and inquisitive mother of one son and two dogs. Not afraid to admit I'm a little crazy and weird. I love learning about social sciences, new information on mental health, meditation, yoga, dance, music, and all animals.

Discovering self-compassion and actively practicing it leads to healthier lifestyles with less symptoms of depression and anxiety. This book is very informative and inspires to start living a self compassionate way of life.

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Three ingredients of self-compassion

Self-compassion involves treating yourself with the same kindness with which you'd treat a loved one. Self-compassion consists of three ingredients:

  • Self-kindness: Offering warmth and understanding to yourself.
  • Common humanity

Self-Compassion Is Trainable

Self-Compassion Is Trainable

While many have the quality of self-compassion from birth, one can also get trained on loving yourself.

A popular mindfulness meditation called ‘loving-kindness meditation’ guides our mind to focus on the feelings of love, forgiveness and warmth towards ourselves and others.

Self-Compassion

We have to take care not to damage our self-esteem and our sense of self-worth by being judgemental about ourselves.

Embracing one’s imperfect moments with kindness and grace, makes us see the positive aspects of the situation and helps us learn from our mistakes. Medita...

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