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Behaviors That Are Keeping You From Having The Life You Want

  • You try to change other people: Most negative emotional reactions are you identifying an aspect of yourself, as the things you love about others are the things you love about yourself and the things you hate about others are the things you cannot see in yourself.
  • You are constantly trying to decide on what’s going to be best for you in the future and then going after it: but choosing what you want for the future is just recreating a solution/ideal of the past. Living in the moment is key, as it is the only thing your brain can actually comprehend.

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Things More Worth Thinking About Than Whatever’s Consuming You

  • The fact that self love sometimes is admitting you don’t like yourself. So you come up with steps to change the things you know you can do better.
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What The Feelings You Most Suppress Are Trying To Tell You

At the end of the day, the worst thing that could ever happen, is just a feeling. And suffering is just the refusal to accept what is, so healing is letting yourself feel.

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