Sabotaging behaviors
- You are controlling and rigid in the way that others should treat you and are easily disappointed.
- You have issues with real intimacy.
- You tell yourself internally that this relationship will never work because you inherently feel inside that you’re not good enough.
- You are sure that it’s only your partner that is the one at fault.
- You constantly test your partner's love for you.
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