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Should You Take a Sabbatical? 3 Women Weigh In

Reasons for a sabbatical

A sabbatical is a chance to readjust, refocus, and get refreshed for the next phase of your life.

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Should You Take a Sabbatical? 3 Women Weigh In

Should You Take a Sabbatical? 3 Women Weigh In

https://www.themuse.com/advice/should-you-take-a-sabbatical-3-women-weigh-in

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The sabbatical

Traditionally, a sabbatical involves a break from work, granted by your employer, and after taking a mutually agreed-upon amount of time off, you return to your work. 

  • A sabbatical can be used to consciously achieve your goals.
  • A sabbatical might be necessary if you feel drained, unmotivated or exhausted.

Reasons for a sabbatical

A sabbatical is a chance to readjust, refocus, and get refreshed for the next phase of your life.

Contemplating a leave

  1. Save as much money as possible in advance. 
  2. Find a support system. Self-doubt or criticism from others could prevent you from taking a sabbatical.

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