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7. Set Goals You Want to Achieve

7. Set Goals You Want to Achieve

Much of the stress and disillusionment people experience with goals comes from setting ones that aren’t truly their own.

When we work on the goals of other people, goals we feel pressure to achieve but don’t actually want, the result is often misery.

Self-determination theory was developed by psychologists Edward Ryan and Richard Deci.

  • They found that external incentives, such as paying someone to complete an otherwise interesting puzzle, could crowd out internal motivation.
  • People would play the puzzle while being paid to, but they would play less when the rewards stopped.




  • Why do we procrastinate? The common perception is that procrastination is caused by perfectionism.
  • People who need to do everything perfectly waste time getting started.
  • One difficulty with setting goals is that our motivational hardwiring doesn’t cope well with the future.

  • A common suggestion for goal-setting is to visualize success. But visualizing failure might work even better.

For goal-setting to be life-affirming, the goals pursued have to feel deeply meaningful to you.

In addition to implementation intentions, Gollwitzer also studied the effects of telling people about the goals you want to achieve.

A significant exception to the power of specific, challenging goals involves creative problem-solving. In tasks that require complex thinking, such as learning, problem-solving or creative work, goal-setting can back...

  • How do we build motivation to pursue our goals? Psychologist Albert Bandura developed the concept of self-efficacy to explain why some people eagerly face challenges while others shrink. If you don’t feel you’ll be successful, why bot...

For over four decades, psychologist Edwin Locke has been central in research on goal-setting. His research has three consistent findings :

  • Setting goals can transform your life. Goals can help you get in shape, improve your finances, learn a new language, or finally launch that business.
  • But goal-setting can also leave you miserable. Burnout, stress and disillusionment are high on the list of potential side effects.

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