Do you actually like spending time with them?

Sometimes interests can be points of relevance such as:

• Working at the same company
• Living in the same building
• Going to the same school
• Playing on the same team
• Being a part of the same organization
• Having gone on the same trip

The more you have in common, the more relevant someone is to you.

In great relationships, the Spheres of Interest move closer together. Its natural when the circles move apart. Its how you handle it that counts.. be logical. Not emotional.