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The wrong approach

The wrong approach

Many people tend to implement actions in order to achieve a particular goal; I will train soccer every day to win the game. And it is not wrong to want to achieve something, but the key to implement habits is the other side of the coin, we have to focus on who we want to become; I am going to train soccer every day to become a professional soccer player.

  • The goal is not to dance a song, the goal is to become a dancer.

It is one thing to say "I am the type of person who wants this", it is quite another to say "I am the type of person who is this".

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