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3 Better Ways to Say "I Don't Want to"

“I Don’t Have the Time”

When you try to find a way out of a commitment you're really not looking forward to, bringing up the fact that your schedule is already packed is a  justifiable reason.

If you want to cushion the blow a little more, preface this statement with an, “I’d love to, but…”. 

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