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Trust is built on attributes, not skills

Trust is more than an emotion. It’s a belief, and belief is an emotion that has been rationalized or justified. To believe anything, we must decide to do so. We cannot make anyone trust us. All we can do is behave in a way that allows that person to decide to trust us.

Empathy, accountability, and authenticity are not skills that we are taught and learn; they are attributes that we develop. While a lot of the skills that we define as performance can be seen, measured, tested and scored, the attributes that build trust are hidden and hard to see.


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High performance relies on attributes

The measure of true top performers is often not taken when things are going great — it’s assessed when things go wrong.

When the plan changes, the environment shifts, everything starts to unravel. This is how we judge our best performers. And the ability t...


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During times of uncertainty, our skills often take a back seat

During times of uncertainty, our skills often take a back seat

Every time we are thrown into any type of uncertainty, we’re forced to use time and energy to figure things out, making sense of what is entirely new. This is required whether the shift is deliberate (you decide to make a change in your life), or if it’s thrown upon us (a layoff ...


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Potential hides in attributes, not skills

Potential hides in attributes, not skills

We are always looking to explore and discover our potential, as well as those in our span of care. What we must remember, however, is that potential always lies in the future. 

Potential is about what could be, not about what is. Skills only tell us what is, while attribute...


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Skills can be taught, but attributes must be developed

Skills can be taught, but attributes must be developed

You can’t learn and develop attributes the same way that you do a skill. To develop an attribute takes self-motivation, self-direction, and a willingness by that person to develop that attribute.

When you are building a team, it’s more important to fin...


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