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Tell people what they need to hear, not what they want to hear.

Tell people what they need to hear, not what they want to hear.

Easier said than done, but once you do it, you’ll never go back to being a word-mincing mush mouth again.

  • It’s truth time. And it’s starting to feel good.
  • There are plenty of reasons to put off the hard talk or telling someone you care about that it’s time to face the music.

When you reframe what you’re doing as giving someone the benefit of knowing the truth, rather than calling someone out, it might take the sting out for both parties.

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No one likes to have the hard talk. If you handle it right, it will make you the best leader in a company, and the best friend anyone could have.

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