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The Confidence problem

I am not going to try and solve the “confidence problem” here, because I don’t think I can, and definitely not for more than one specific person, on top of that, the person who knows the most about this problem and has the best chances of solving it right now is the one reading this idea.

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Assume The Other Person Likes You.

Assume The Other Person Likes You.

Perspective is an interesting concept — it is a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view.

Everyone has shaped their own view of reality, and they perceive the ways that people treat them as good or bad. Even if the intention of the other per...

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Confidence and how you ACT

Confidence and how you ACT

You see it the other way around as well. When you come into an interaction with the assumption that people DON’T like you or that you’re weird, awkward, or a burden on others, you will act in ways that will make people not like you as much.

Honestly, you could argue that al...

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It could be expanded to all people, as well — if you assume that everyone you meet is going to like you and wait to be proven otherwise, it will improve your confidence, your social comfort, your sense of humor (critical to which is the confidence of delivery and the relationship...

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Try it

Try it

I do think though that you should try this method out — assume that your friends like you and your company, that you aren’t annoying them, and that they want to hang out with you more. LIE TO YOURSELF WITH INTENT, the brain is separable, it can outplay itself, un...

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Assumptions, Confidence, Acting, and your better self.

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