Think about the task at hand

At work, it's okay to have relationships with people who are not your best friends. Remove the pressure to develop intimacy at work.

Consider how to build each connection. Consider whether your intended share is important to the success of the work relationship. For example, if the team is going out socially after the customer meeting, you may feel like letting them know you're committed to your yoga class. However, you don't need to divulge that you're rebuilding a relationship with one of your classmates.