Be Curious, Not Judgmental
- Even if we don’t intend to be, if we’re not curious then we’re coming from a place of judgment. We are inferring that we already know or lack the interest in learning more.
- If you’re not curious, you miss the big picture. And this can have negative consequences.
- Ask more questions. Use positive language. Show curiosity with your body.
- The more curious you can be with someone, the more likely you’ll have more conversations in the future.
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