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It Feels Worse Isn't It?

It Feels Worse Isn't It?

How often did you not say what you needed to, only to replay the conversation that could’ve been? The love you could’ve shown. The bold conversation you could’ve had. And all you’re left with is the agony of “if only.”

“If only I’d spoken up.”

“If only I’d stayed quiet.”

“If only I had said it differently.”

There was an underlying shame that accompanied my “mistakes,” real or perceived, and the only way out was to raise the bar even higher for myself. Desperate attempts to please or prove myself in other ways. Constant vigilance for criticism or disapproval.

Isn't it?


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