Stage two: Conscious Incompetence

Apply these steps to your life using the goals that you have :

1. When you’re playing a game, you usually start at Level One. You’re a newbie, a beginner, a rookie.
2. Then, as you take certain actions, you accumulate points.
3. Once you have enough points, you move up to the ...

Sandstrom says in her experience, she would describe the stages of having a conversation with a stranger as follows:

First, they look at you as if asking, “Do I know you?” Then there’s recognition they don’t know you.

Then it’s, “Wait, are you a weirdo?”

The...

To get good at a game, you need to get to know the rules of the universe well and to develop the necessary skills. To do this, you need to fail many times.

Once you get into this mindset of “failure is merely a teaching tool,” you’ll start to apply it to other aspects of life without eve...