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The People Pleaser
This is a dangerous path: they end up confusing everyone around them by failing to express their true needs and feelings and they also build up a lot of frustration.
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To survive, we decide to be responsive to what others expect us to do and be, leaving aside w...
And we do it not to obtain some sort of advantage over someone, but because we deeply fear the annoyance and dissatisfaction of the people around us.
- Keep in mind that the people that now in adulthood surround you (colleagues, friends, partners) are most likely very different from the ones that influenced your anxieties during childhood.
- Be aware of the side effects of people-pleasing: even if you have...
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Some of the reasons why we are not that good at friendships is the fact that we don't have a clear idea of what a really good friend might be like.
Maybe we should try to come up with a list of traits for an ideal friend, so as to focus our desires to acquire the sort of c...
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When we're around straightforward people we know exactly what the issues are from the start. They know what they want and they are not afraid to state it:
- There is no need to guess and decode their intentions
- If they don't want to do something, they ...
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- Catch Attention: Start with a hook
- The MC: Don't info dump the character profile unless there are details crucial to the plot which could attract the reader's attention.
- Names: Don't mention too many names in the blurb. It can confuse the reader. Try sticking to two names.
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