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Use your awareness and follow the S.T.O.P. rule: "See The Other Person."
Looking at the other person is like stopping at a four-way intersection, where we need to observe, pausing for a moment, and then go forward.
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Instead of unconsciously staring, and subsequently judging the other person, a better way is to consciously observe.
Usually, when we meet or see a person, we create a first impression in our minds, almost unconsciously.
A snap judgement, or an unfair first impression can be a learning experience for the one who has made it, but it can also be a lifetime scar for the one on the receiving end, as it can stick with them.
We have a natural instinct to stare at someone to gather information and categorize the person as safe or dangerous.
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