If you always behave nicely with everyone then people start taking unfair advantage of you.They think however they behave, no matter what, you'll behave nicely.Have a higher standard for how people treat you.Don't let others disrespect you.

Have Higher Standards

Prioritizing yourself in the first position doesn't mean you are selfish.

Nice guys track all the help they did.Psychologically they subconsciously expect the same effort in return as they did.High-value people don't expect in return.

Stop Tracking Your Good Deeds

Nice guys are anything but nice.

Nice guys think if they agree with everyone's viewpoint it will make them more likable.Talk about how you think about something no matter if it is not according to the others. You must have your own opinions.

Stop Agreeing So Much

<ul><li>The is a new race of males called Nice Guys.</li><li>Nice guys finish last</li><li>Seeks approval of others</li><li>Only cares about others by compromising themselves.</li></ul>Myth: Nice guys always try to make others happy, then they will be happy and problem-free.But when this strategy doesn't work they become frustrated and disappointed.

The Nice Guy Syndrome

Nice guys speak indirectly to put their points or decision because they are feared of rejection.Speak what you want to speak, not everybody needs to agree with you. And that's fine.

Speak With Conviction

These are a few traits that make you miserable because after a certain point people will start taking advantage of you and at that moment you'll have to draw a line and prioritize yourself over everyone else.

Debunks the "nice guy syndrome," the need to please others at one's own expense with the hope of receiving happiness, love, and fulfillment, and offers advice for how to rediscover oneself, revive one's sex life, and build better relationships with others.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Psychology

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Personal Development

Originally published as an e-book that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential.

Dr. Robert Glover is the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan For Getting What You Want in Love, Sex and Life (Running Press, 2003) and Dating Essentials for Men: The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need. Dr. Glover is the creator of Dating Essentials for Men and the director of TPI University.

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