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Early Feelings

A new relationship that looks promising can make us think it will be happy forever, as we feel happy at that time.

A study shows that even after a couple of years the same people who were happy which each other show different kinds of behaviour, both positive and negative.

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... or the Negativity Effect is a tendency most of us have to respond more strongly to negative events and emotions than to positive ones.

Relationships, especially long-term ones, don't get better with time but are kept intact by avoiding decline.

There are four ways a partner response to something he or she doesn't like in the other:

The Negativity Effect magnifies and distorts your partner's faults, whether real or imaginary.

The “female‑demand, male‑withdrawal” is the most known conflict pattern in heterosexual couples.

Negativity seems to be less of a problem in same‑sex couples.

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