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How To Become a Better Decision-Maker

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Have three questions and a statement in mind

Have three questions and a statement in mind

If you want to show more empathy, you have to notice what is happening with the people around you and then incorporate it into your interactions. 

It is helpful to remember the following three questions:

  1. What does this person want? Thinking about their goals is important. The emotions people experience is directly related to how things are going for them motivationally.
  2. What situation are they in? When you understand what they are dealing with, you can better empathise with them.
  3. What are they displaying to you? Watching them closely will give you a sense of what is landing with them. 

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The value of empathy at work

The value of empathy at work

There is a lot of value in empathy at work. Understanding your colleagues' situations can help you work more effectively with them. Understanding customers and clients can help to provide better service.

Some people naturally consider other people’s perspectives and emotions when interactin...

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Read novels

Read novels

Reading transports you into the mind and situation of someone else who is likely to be different from yourself.

Experiencing their world for a while gives you insight into the variety of ways that other people’s lives and thought processes differ from your own.

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Practice

If empathy doesn’t come naturally to you, an effective strategy is to simulate the situation and play different roles in it. 

Empathic design makes use of this simulation. With this technique, a team uses a product or service while simulating conditions a particular kind of...

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Questions

A few questions related to various aspects of work:

  • Icebreaker: How has this last week been for you?
  • Productivity: Is there anything in your work life that you would like my help with?
  • Team: How is everything going with the people you are working w...

Ask Questions

Ask Questions

Someone might resort to guilt when they don’t know how to advocate for themselves in more direct ways.

If you notice signs suggestive of guilt-tripping, use open-ended questions to encourage them to express themselves directly:

  • “You seem upset. What’s going on?”
  • “It s...

Ask identity questions

Identity questions help your friend get in touch with the values that make them the person they are. 

“What is really important to you?"; “What kind of life do you want to lead?”; and, "What kind of person do you want to become?"

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