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Harvard researchers have mapped the five child-rearing techniques you need to raise kind kids

Managing destructive feelings

Shame, anger, and jealousy can interfere with kindness. Children need to be taught how to address these feelings.

When adults introduce ethical questions, they put issues of injustice in view and help children learn how to treat their various responsibilities to others and themselves.

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