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  • Now you don’t want to overwhelm  the other person and immediately spill out your deepest secrets. But open up a little  and reveal personal things – because this also signals to others that it is ok to do  the same.
  • The best case is that you find shared experiences – maybe you  both had a hard time in school, maybe you share a passion for weird movies.
  • Learning about others and sharing personal stories in a balanced way and not overdoing it,  is not an exact science. Noticing the line between opening up and oversharing  requires practice and depends on the vibe of the conversation.

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Dental Student🦷 An aspiring Doctor striving towards the path of righteousness.⚕

As with all important things in life,  making friends is infuriatingly simple but   not necessarily easy. But it works through  a few pretty straight forward mechanisms

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