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Your Job Can't Be the Only Meaningful Thing in Your Life

Be kind

The key to a meaningful life seems to be thinking less about ourselves and instead to focus on others by performing acts of kindness, like volunteering, mentoring, coaching or writing someone a letter of gratitude.

Research conducted shows that those who were more altruistic reported increases in meaning versus those who did not.

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